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Writers of the Round Table of Bradley Beach, N.J.

 

Our History

 

In February of 2001, author Harriet May Savitz, at a Senior Citizens meeting, extended an invitation to any interested persons to come together and form a creative writing club.  That was all that was necessary.  The rest is history.

 

On February 14, 2001 a group of eight Senior Citizens, namely Rose Cirelli, Milton Edelman, Mildred Koweek, Ann Marzano. George H. Moffett, Elia Reyes, Harriet May Savitz  and Edna Wilkins met for the first time under the enthusiastic leadership of Mrs. Savitz.  We named our group, most appropriately, the Writers of the Round Table of Bradley Beach.  The Writers of the Round Table of Bradley Beach meets on Wednesday of each week at 10:00 A.M,  the Carman A. Biase Community Center in the Municipal Complex, 719 Main Street, Bradley Beach, N. J. 07720.

 

As the writers group continued to meet weekly, a bond formed among the members and we knew we were here to stay. 

 The following are essays written by the members of the Writers of the Round Table of Bradley Beach.


    THE CHARITY BOX

    By: Ruth J. Abramowitz

 

 As a child my parents gave us a penny and said, Put it in the charity box. This was a square shaped blue box mom kept on the kitchen shelf.  Every month a man from the Workmans Circle group came and picked up the money in the box to give to families in need. Growing up in the depression years, we had little money, but always found a couple of pennies for the charity box.

 I remember everyone helped each other. If a parent was not home when a child came home from school, a neighbor or friend was there with milk and cookies. No child ever felt alone or helpless.  The older children cared for the younger and people helped each other. Our doors were open for anyone to enter. Doing good deeds was part of living well. We had little money, but the richness of friendships and the things we did together, no money could ever buy. We were happy.

 As the years passed, things began to change. Families still lived close to each other, but the children wanted to spend more time with friends than with family members. My family continued the Friday night tradition of eating together and putting pennies into the charity box.  In my later years I can still hear my mothers voice, My children, it isnt what you say but what you do that will make a difference in your life.   I found that time is something you cannot replace.  Many waste it thinking of what they did not do yesterday rather than what they can do today.

 I started volunteer work in my teen years and realized the importance of helping others. I joined a couple of organizations. One has a motto, "There be no price tag on life."  Members of an organization have the opportunity to do things they could not do alone.  I spent many hours going to a Veterans Hospital with my Veterans Post.  We played bingo games, read and wrote letters for the veterans, served snacks and drinks, gave toiletries and cards they would use after we were gone.  The welcome we received upon arrival and the thanks when we left made those hours priceless. Hours of time are often more beneficial than money. 

  I am now in my eighties and feel blessed.  I drive a car, work part-time as a data entry clerk, take friends and neighbors shopping and to meetings, do my own housework and write.  A charity box stays on a kitchen shelf in my home.

 

I was born in 1920 on a farm; I began writing at age twelve and have lost two husbands during my lifetime.  My life was spent working, volunteering and raising my son.  At eighty-six years, I continue to work part-time as a data-entry clerk, help charitable organizations and am writing a book.  Helping others gives me the greatest satisfaction.

        Ruth Jobrack Abramowitz


  Waste -  Food for Thought

By Lee Anderson
 

 When I casually mentioned the subject of waste to a friend, she responded, Waste not-want not.  It was also the first thought I had.

 Waste occurs in time, money, utilities, material things, thoughts, words and actions.  We have all been guilty in the past and present.  A thrifty individual is considered frugal.

 Years ago, we cashed in bottles for five and ten cents deposits.  Now municipalities are cashing in with the recycling of various materials which requires machinery and manpower.  Even waste becomes profitable.

 In a small way, we deal with waste having rummage sales, garage sales, house sales, which are a form of recycling.  Someones trash is anothers treasure.   The waste of others which I observe daily, bothers me.  I have no knowledge as to the extent of government waste, but I feel it is beyond my imagination.  Out of curiosity, I approached managers of  supermarkets and questioned them about what happened with the leftover fresh and cooked foods.  Some said they reduced prices at night and didnt have much left over.  Waste supposedly amounts to about 3 to 5%.  Even 10% in some departments.    Many items have expiration dates.  I was told that expired yogurt in dairy is returned to the distributors.   Supermarkets have a pig barrel for which they receive compensation. The waste feeds the pigs.  The biggest waste is 12% in fish and meat departments.  The bakeries donate most of their leftovers to Food Banks and needy facilities.    I believe waste escalates purchase prices and the cost of living.

 I try to waste as little as possible.  Whatever is left over at my table goes to the stray cats, the squirrels and the birds.  We can always find someone who needs what we do not.

 

 

?I am one of five children.  My parents were Italian immigrants.  I have six children and spent most of my life as a certified nurses aid and was hospice trained.  I was caregiver to many men and women..  At 88, I continue to volunteer to help others. I crochet and take pleasure in feeding stray animals.?

         Lee Anderson


     Guilt

By Milton Edelman

 

 While standing in front of my shop, I noticed a young German Shepherd dog pass by slowly as if looking for friendship.  I said, Hello, Pooch, but he ran in fear under a nearby car while looking at me.

 I came over and tried to convince him that I was a friend and wanted to pet him.  It was a challenge.  After about five minutes, he came out slowly and finally let me pet him.  It seemed that he had been mistreated and was very young.

 I went into work.  After several hours, I came out and there he was, waiting at my door.  I realized that he might be hungry or thirsty, so I fed him.  He then wanted to come in, but I refused, because I had toxic chemicals  in my shop which could be harmful if he licked them.   I had the feeling I was being adopted.  He was indeed a smart dog and did not bark at passers-by.

 When I went out for awhile, he would lie on a grassy spot across the street.  As soon as I returned, he bounded over for hugs and petting.  This went on for several weeks until I went away for a week-end.  Upon returning, there was no dog, and suddenly I realized that I loved this dog and wondered why  I didnt make a place for him.

 For days, I searched the neighborhood but to no avail.  I hope he found a good home.


 

 

Miltonisms

 By Milton Edelman

 

A group of spiders decided to go modern and started a web.

The most explosive time bombs are the results of a ticking brain.

Only photographers have the right to talk about negatives.

Don?t ever let words stumble over your thoughts.

A guy took a gun and held up time.

Guess what the professor said?  I trust to a degree.

Those who manufacture gift items are living in the present.

 

 

Along the way there comes a time

We put precious thoughts into rhyme.

Neatly penned for all to see,

Cherished for eternity.

 

Anno Domini 1922 was my beginning in Baltimore, where I ingested art galleries, museums, ships, and became street smart.  Completed tenth grade and went to work.  Many jobs, almost three years military service.  Graduated photography school in 1949 and operated portrait studios for many years.  Also manufactured printed circuit boards for 27 years.  I love writing and inventing.

 Milton Edelman

 It Has Nothing to Do With Being Smart


 

By Veronica Cullinan Lake

 I was thinking of getting a Golden Retriever. It was my idea of a dog, if you liked them big. My friend cautioned, "Don't get a Golden Retriever. They're not very smart. They don't do anything; just eat huge quantities of food and lie around." I didn't expect a dog to balance my checkbook or discuss art history. If he was willing to go on walks, eat his food, and keep me company, that was enough. Maybe I was selling myself short, so I thought about my friends and their pets. What were they accomplishing together?
    Hugh, my upstate friend's cat, sleeps in the living room on the mantle piece. A dog swam across the lake, spied Hugh, and chased after him, with Kathy trailing behind. The dog chomped on the cat for a moment, and then Kathy whacked him with a broom. The Lab let go, plunged into the lake, and swam away. For security purposes, the cat now permanently resides on the mantle.
 Subsequently, Lizzie, a dainty female, had the run of the house. I interrupted the unpacking of my suitcase during one visit to go downstairs for a cup of tea, and returned to find water spilling over my clothes. I called my friend to discuss Lizzy's "accident".  She grabbed my things and apologized profusely. "Lizzy marks her territory ever since Hugh has resorted to living on the mantle piece. I'll put everything in the washing machine and drier. They'll be done by supper." I spied Miss Lizzy on the bed propped up on three pillows looking pretty pleased with herself.

     Carol, another friend of mine, fostered a Pomeranian named Josh from the shelter. I always thought of him as ginger caterpillar on stilts. One of his legs doesn't bend or rest on the ground. On walks, Josh passionately collects cigarettes. Cigarettes you can't pry out of his mouth. Put a beret on his head and a scarf around his neck, he'd look very French.  Josh wants only warm soggy bread for food. At night he hides under Carol's bed fearful of the dark. The dog loves sitting next to her. He'll poke his nose under her arm until she lifts it, then scuttles under pressed against her body all happy. Come to think of it, there might be a good chance he is French!
    My sister has a lion-like chow that doesn't do much of anything but block the doorway. Supposedly this was their job in China: to protect the king's palace. Kimba eats lying down with her legs outstretched on the floor. She woofs when she needs her plate rotated. Everyone in the family obliges. It takes three woofs to finish a meal.

It Has Nothing To Do With Being Smart   

    Janet's basset hound, all eighty pounds, can't manage the steep steps to her apartment. She has to move to another apartment.. Hauling Cleo up those steps is breaking both their backs. Janet travels to conventions where basset hounds can associate with one another. They wear party hats.

 Scout, a boarder collie, jumped over a wall and nipped a jogger coming too close to Sandra's property. She was fined and taken to court. When her son got a bunny for a pet, the jogger situation vanished. The dog spends the entire day corralling the black and white rabbit until the rabbit's exhausted, hops into his cage and collapses; the dog ever on guard beside him.
 Thinking over this list, I realized choosing a smart pet had nothing to do with it, for some of these animals couldn't even take care of themselves. All the owners stepped in to accommodate their little quirks and aberrant behavior. They were made to feel comfortable and safe. That I realized was the best criterion for choosing a pet: wanting them for a friend.

I live in Manhattan and at the Jersey Shore. I enjoy writing, water coloring, working in my garden, reading, and taking long walks on the boardwalk all of which I can do now that I am retired from teaching.

     Veronica Cullinan Lake


 

 

      Its Madeline

By Ann  Florio Marzano

 

 There are people in our lives who leave a lasting fond impression with us.  Such a person was Madeline, with her face of an angel, big heart, gazelle looks and two left feet.

 We attended a small grammar school together.  When we changed classes, we went up and down stairs.  Madeline?s feet would get in her way and boom bang down the stairs she went.  It happened often and it got to the point when in unison, everyone could be heard saying, ?It?s Madeline!?

 She kept her Guardian Angel busy and thankfully she would only bruise slightly.  At a school dance, she tripped over her partner, bumping into another couple and all of them went down on the gym floor.  This followed with the familiar refrain, ?It?s Madeline!?

 At Christmas, we always had the same pageant year after year.  Madeline entered as an angel with large extended wings, along with two other angels.  Sure enough, she missed a step and angels and wings went flying across the stage.   The audience was surprised to hear from offstage, ?It?s Madeline.?  At the finale, she was given a standing ovation as she had livened up a play that had been seen many times before.

 Through the years, I lost track of Madeline, but never forgot her.  ?Til this day, when I hear a commotion or bang, under my breath, I say, ?It?s Dear Madeline!?

  

      Thank You, Old House

By Ann Florio Marzano

 

 I call you, ?oldlovingly because we have both aged together over the last fifty plus years.  When I first came to you, I was healthy and strong and you were mighty and beautiful.  You have protected and sheltered me and my family from the ravages of nature.  You have shared our joys, sorrows, disappointments and successes.  My children have known you in infancy, childhood and even adulthood.  Friends and family always received a welcome and happy times from you. 

 Many, many years have gone by and I am no longer robust.  I now walk with a careful, slow step.  You too have groans and creaks and always need repairs.  I do not know what the future holds for us, but I know as two old, good friends that have weathered many storms, we will see it through together.

 

?I am in my eighties and have been married over fifty six years.  My husband Anthony and I grew up in New York, married in our twenties, moved to New Jersey and have been living in our present home over fifty years.  In younger days, I loved working as a Librarian.

    Ann Florio Marzano


   STUCK 

By George H. Moffett      

 I  was stuck in life.  I felt like my life was on hold, both in the secular world and the spiritual world.  I felt like my days were unfulfilled even though I was busy each day from 6:00 a.m., when I arose, until sometime after 11:00 p.m., when I turned in.

  In over six decades of living this was not the first time I had been stuck.  From high school through age 21, I was really stranded on a sandbar.  Those years were totally wasted.  I had no clue as to what I wanted to do with my life.  I couldn?t find anything that motivated me, except maybe living on the beach during the summer months.  But, how long can you do that?

 

 In my 21st year, a light went on in my head and I decided to go to Petty Institute for three days of testing to find out what my special interests were.  The testing was laborious but it was worth the search to discover some direction in my life.  What a joy to find out that I had no special interests.  The last thing I needed was for this learned body of experts to tell me I was stuck in life.  I already knew I had a strong inferiority complex, low self-esteem, and no confidence, and now I was told I had another problem.

 I showed them.  I went totally beyond anything the experts indicated I was capable of doing.  I made a decision that would knock their hats off and mine too.  I immediately joined the United States Marine Corps.  I was so excited.  I was unstuck for at least three years.  But, I have to tell you I was petrified upon arrival at Boot Camp.  However, it was the right decision, because in those three years I made Staff Sergeant and became so highly motivated that I realized I was capable of fulfilling my potential, whatever it might be.  I was unstuck for longer than three years, thanks to the experts who motivated me by telling me I had no special interests.

 There were other ?stucktimes in my life which I worked my way through.  But who would expect to be stuck at age 75, having been happily retired for 13 years.  Those years were filled with helping people, volunteering for various causes, actively supporting my church and my belief in God, and recently attending classes to learn how to do creative writing.  What a delight! 

 I knew, with all humility, that I was a good person, but I also felt that there was much more I should have been doing in my worldly life and my spiritual life.  I prayed that God would grab a hold of me, stir me up, and give me a good shaking.   I wished God would really give me a jolt of lightning, a blessing that would rock my soul.  I even asked a few friends to pray for me; something I had never done before in my life.

 Maybe through the prayers of some of my friends and the blessing of God I would gain more wisdom.  Even at age 75, I realized that I had to do the work myself.  Ultimately getting unstuck was up to me.  Beliefs determine one?s behavior, so if I changed my thoughts I would change my life.

 I then started to become unstuck.  It didn?t happen all at once.  It was a gradual process of struggling over a period of many days.  It was a mind game.  One day yes; the next day maybe, or even no.  Indecision was the enemy of progress.  The first decision I made to rejuvenate myself, which was the correct one, was to start writing again.  It wasn?t easy.  I really had to search inside myself to find the creative juices.  I had to force myself to find a topic and once I did, it was a long thought process before I even typed the first letter.  Once I began typing, the process gained momentum.  I was on a roll.  It felt so good to write again; to be creative.  My mind started brewing up things to do.  How could I have ever thought of living without writing?  I also resumed working out five days a week at my health club.  Things were happening; positive things.  Living started to feel good again.  The stress of being stuck was replaced with the serenity of knowing that I had found my way once more. 

 I was reminded that one doesn?t grow old; one becomes old through  inactivity.  Living a life that is less than what we were meant to be, less than what we could be, would be leading an unfulfilled life.  I broke out of my mired existence and strived to live the life I imagined.  I was getting closer to the day that the person I was and the person I wanted to be would meet.

 

Born 1930 in Bradley Beach, N. J. where I was employed as the Borough Clerk/Treasurer and served 4 years on the Board of Commissioners.  I lift weights, run, play racquetball, eat a healthy diet and strongly believe in Jesus Christ, all in my quest to become a centurion.  Now I am a writer with many stories to tell.  geomoffett@yahoo.com.  


 

A Tribute to my brother. Nick

 

By Elia R. Monticello-Reyes


 For many years, we celebrated Christmas Eve at my brother's house with the family. The house cheerfully decorated with holiday ornaments, delicious food, beverages, baked goods, many gifts and loving cheer. It was a gala event we looked forward to every year.
 Nick was a compassionate loving person and most of all our hero. He stood by us unconditionally and firm in his beliefs. His presence made us feel secure and safe, and his handsome face was a pleasure to see.    
 Nick was a United States Marine and served in the Korean War.   He was one of the Marines who were trapped in the "Chosen Resevoirand they left no Marine behind.  He was an electrician with the Newark Housing Authority for 34 years.  Nicholas J. A. Monticello, died on July 25, 2005. He was named Nicholas, after our father Joseph, Mom's brother and Anthony our maternal grandfather.
 Six New Jersey State Trooper cars and two unmarked State Trooper cars escorted the funeral entourage. They stopped at every intersection directing traffic. At the entrance of the church stood an Honor Guard of NJ State Troopers and a bag piper playing the US Marine Hymn.  As the family and friends entered the church the organist played Amazing Grace. The priest commented at the funeral, the display of love and devotion for Nick was seldom seen.

 At the burial site were two US Marines.  They folded the American flag, presenting it to his wife, Pauline, and thanked Nicholas on behalf of the President of the United States and the US Marine Corp. for serving his country well.

 My brother Nick, will be missed by all of us.  May his soul rest in peace.


 

         

      ROCCO'S FENCE

 

  By Elia R. Monticello-Reyes       

  

  Growing up, we lived on Littleton Ave. in Newark, a quiet middle class neighborhood.  We lived on the third floor; the landlady on the second floor, and my Aunt and Uncle on the first floor. 

  My younger brother, Rocco, at four years old, was playing in the backyard with the  Landlord?s grandson who was a few years older.  Rocco was crying when he called Mama.  She asked why he was crying.  Rocco replied, "Tommy said I can't touch the fence because it's his fence and his house."

  Mama shouted back, "Yes, Rocco, you can touch the fence because you pay rent."   

 When Papa came home that night, Mama reported to him what occurred.  Right then  and there Papa contacted a realtor to purchase a house so Rocco could touch the fence.    He bought a three family house just a few blocks away.  

  To this day, forty years later, we tell Rocco that if he hadn't touched the fence on  Littleton Ave., we would still be living there.


    Haircut  # 1

  By Herbert Porter      

 

 Many years ago, my mother took me for my first haircut.  For six years my hair grew uncut into long beautiful curls, rivaling those of Shirley Temple. I was about to lose the hair that brought me recognition,  praise, and the feeling of being important every time I encountered females  from six to sixty.

  
Family legend has it that my father wanted a daughter so badly that he forbade my hair to be cut

until my mother delivered a girl. Apparently six sons were enough.  My sister Geraldine was born August 1938, yet my hair was left to grow until I was scheduled to enter school.

Considering the ordeals of a boy with a nickname Sue, a boy with girly hair should have some teasing experiences to tell about.  I do not.  Maybe I blocked them out.  Maybe there were none.

I believe my brothers were as proud of my hair as my parents and I were.
 

   I have never forgotten the barber shop I entered that autumn afternoon.  The sight of it sent pangs of trepidation through me. My thoughts were not conducive to a good hair cutting experience.

And, in actuality, the worst was yet to come. 

   My mother collected each curl and wrapped it in white tissue as the barber handed them to her. 

They could have been sold for cash like in the story of the magi.  Our family could have used the money but I believe the pride my mother and father had in my curls made them an unsalable family treasure.

They remain in the family memorabilia collection to this day. 

 The barber used scissors to cut the long curls, then electric clippers to further shorten my hair.

Then I felt the warm foamy lather the barber spread above and behind both my ears.

I heard the slapping noise of his razor on the heavy leather strap, which hung off the side of the chair. I thought he was going to shave me.   My father used a straight razor and lather on his face each morning without event. So I closed my eyes still with fearful expectation.  Then it came, a sharp pain in my ear from the cut the razor put there. Though startled, I could not raise my head for the barber had been pushing my head downward to be sure I didn?t move.  My now opened eyes saw the blood dripping all over the white barber sheet.   With quick dabbing strokes, separated by pats with a cloth, he applied a septic stick to stop the bleeding.  My desire was   to bolt from this slaughter house and head for home shouting repetitions of "never again" "never again" I was being traumatized like no kid had ever been, or so I thought.  How did I know the ear wasn't cut offHe wanted me to look in the mirror. I did not even look up.  My eyes were now fixated on the many new red spots on the white linen.

  The ear healed quickly.  My psyche took longer. For years thereafter I would use every excuse possible to delay, postpone or avoid a haircut.   Grayness, receding hairline, and potential baldness finally solved the problem.

 

I find that being  a 72 year old male retiree permits me  to write free of obligations  to family, professors, or employers

     Herbert Porter


        SOLITAIRE:  THE GREAT ESCAPE

 By Amanda Porter

      As a baby-sitting teenager, I played Canfield solitaire while my charges slept.  It involved laying out the standard seven piles of playing cards, one in the first pile up to seven in the last pile.  The game "cost" one dollar per card: $52 and paid $5 per card put on the ace to king piles for each suit at the top--$500 if the player went out, i.e. ended with four piles of each suit: clubs, hearts, spades, and diamonds stacked from ace to king.
      This time-consuming game has been replicated on computers.  By looking for "accessories," or directly for "games," the menu usually includes solitaire.  By merely pressing the "game" button, then the "deal" button after the Solitaire board has come on, your deal for that game will be laid out for playing.  Under "deal" are some choices: "undo," "deck," "options," and "exit." "Exit" will remove the game.  I have never used it as there are other ways to leave; but I assume if your boss walks in, this method is the fastest way to get back to work.  "Undo" does not function until you are playing and want to put a card back.  I have never used it either because it is so easy just to go on to a new game.  "Deck" gives you a choice of decorative backs of the card deck.  If you pick the beach scene, at every 50 units of time (in the right hand corner of the screen) the sun in the upper corner of the deck will become a face that sticks his tongue out at you.  You will have to experiment to see if any of the other decks play with you.  Knowing that you have used 50 time units (probably seconds) is more nerve-wracking than helpful.
     "Options" gives you the "draw" choice of one or three cards at a time; the "scoring" choice of "standard," "Vegas," or "none."  If you choose "none," you will lose the thrill of improving the score that you are eschewing.  "Vegas" plays like Canfield (who also operated a gambling den, I believe) with one's score expressed in dollars.  Drawing once in Vegas allows you to draw on the deck only once; three at a time gives you three runs through the deck.  In "standard" either kind of draw can be done over as long as one wants.  Of course, when you note that you are getting no closer to going out (I call that "spinning my wheels"), the wise move is to re-deal.
     The other "options:" "timed game," "status bar," "outline dragging," and "keep score" depend somewhat on your previous choices.  You only have the option of "keep score" with "standard."  "None" automatically means no scoring, although you can use "timed game" and Vegas automatically scores games.  "Timed game" is self-
explanatory and "status bar" puts your ongoing record in the right hand lower corner below the board.  The key to improving one's score is to play the standard game, draw optional (I prefer one at a time), timed game, with status bar to show your results.  And practice, practice, practice!
     The use of "outline dragging" eludes me, so I never add it.  The need to practice to improve comes from the "timed game" rewarding one with a greater "bonus" score when one goes out in the shortest time one can.  When I became aware of this, I tried to get my time below 100.  On my old computer I was able to achieve a time of 71 which gave me a score of 10511, my personal best, which I have not been able to repeat in years of trying.
     Some other hints include re-dealing any hand that looks unpromising, meaning there are two cards that are the same color and number (black fives, red Jacks).  The most action that precedes your drawing from the deck, the better.  If there is little or no action after you have drawn about ten cards, you may as well re-deal.  The more games that you start, the more likely you will hit on a good one that will go out.  Also to try to move faster, keep the card you may need to complete a move in your mind as you draw.  Then when your red four, for instance, shows up, you are geared to move it with your mouse quickly.  The attempt to be speedy is only stressful if you get interrupted by family or phone.  But, after all, it is only a game and-so far as I know-no one is offering prizes.  Enjoy the "great escape" aspect.

 

   Being an easily distracted procrastinator, I have thought many more solutions than I have communicated, thus denying a better world for my progeny, as well as others who would have benefited from living in the utopia envisioned in Edward Bellamy's "Looking Backward," a world of sharing and caring.    Amanda Porter
    


 

   MY  JULY  FOURTH  2006  INSPIRATION

 

By Kalinka Shumanov

 

    Fifty years ago a new young immigrant arrived in America on the wings of hope and dreams of opportunities in the land of freedom.  That young immigrant was me.

   Many years have passed and I have experienced ?the luxuryof freedom.  I have achieved many of my dreams, and many more than I have ever hoped for.

Every year when I celebrate the 4th of July, I revive my memories from the beginning to the present of my life in America.  The celebration of this holiday and remembering what it stands for brings me to the highest level of emotions.  I might describe my feelings like the fire works in the sky all over America, the colors and shapes and sounds of celebration. 

 I was watching the people?s faces from little babies to centurions while they were waving their flags showing pride and happiness for this fantastic moment reminding them who they are. These feeling of pride being an American should never be lost.  I wasn?t born in America, but if I was given the choice,  I would have chosen to be born here.  God Bless America!!!  We should cherish it and protect it.

 

?I was born in Bulgaria, but grew up in neighboring Yugoslavia.  My family experienced the horrors of Nazis and Communists invasions.  Finally we escaped to Italy where we waited three years to come to the Free World.  I came to America in 1956 and worked as a Microbiologist.  Now I teach and interpret in courts.

       Kalinka Shumanov


They Dare To Write

By Harriet May Savitz

   Each week I meet with the Writers of the Round Table of Bradley Beach.  Each week they sit around a round table with notebooks and pens in hand.  Each week they do not know what will be said or what ideas will be presented.  Their writing adventure continues as it has for the past several years.  They are unafraid as they travel down the road of unknowns.

   I must tell you about these writers of the round table.   I see them as warriors, as heroes, as role models.   I would like you to know them, perhaps not as well as I do, but at least well enough to understand what they are attempting to do.  Know that each of them has been published in newspapers and magazines.

   Ruth Abramowitz is in her mid-eighties.  She is writing essays and stories about her growing up years.  She is putting together a book, a history of her family and of herself. (including the day she had her tonsils removed on the kitchen table)  It will be her journey through life. She talks of this book with the energy of a teen-ager. Wisdom will live in its pages.

   Milton Edelman is a professional photographer and writer.  He too is in his eighties.  Still taking photographs.  Still capturing beauty and history wherever he finds it.  Milton can say everything in two lines of writing.  We call them Miltonisms.

   Ann Marzano is approaching eighty.  She has a way of summing up life that deepens ones understanding of it.  When Ann reads her work, we listen carefully because we know somewhere along the way we will learn something about ourselves we did not know before.  She captures the everyday moments and makes them glow.

   George Moffett is in his mid seventies.  He writes about feelings.  His own and those of others.  His words offer hope and a sensitivity that few men would admit.  He is not afraid to write about crying and to admit that he does.

   Elia Reyes is in her eighties .  She has often documented our meetings.  Eagerly taking notes of what we have said and discussed and debated.  She captures this in her trusty notebook.  No one asked that she do this.  But she thought it valuable to keep what was discovered at the Round Table. 

   Kalinka Shumanov came to the Round Table recently.  In her seventies, she has suffered the wounds of war in the country she lived in years ago.  She writes of this now and of the Science she has studied.  Her heart is in her words.

   Lee Anderson, in her mid eighties, has a keen eye for detail.  She will take a subject and dig into it until we know as much as she does. (such as what happens to the leftover food in food markets-where does it go?)  She writes about things not everyone takes time to think about.  As she tries to understand the world.. 

   Veronica Lake is an artist.  She also paints with words.  She is the youngest of the group, approaching her older years.  With her artist?s eye, she tells a story that comes to life.  It becomes a portrait of truth.

   Each week they come together.  They believe  they have something to offer, to share.  Everyone around the table speaks openly about their feelings.  And later they write about them and read their works aloud.  No matter how many or how few attend, they write, they share, they trust and they deliver their messages. To each other.  And then to the public.   They do this in spite of health issues that might shadow their days.  In spite of loneliness that might haunt their nights.  In spite of the frustrations of aging.  Of being thought of as old.  Of being thought of as unimportant. Of being lumped together as ?seniors. 

   Through it all, they write.  They write because they deserve to be heard.  They write because they have something important to say.  They write because they have young minds that refuse to surrender.  They write because they have the courage to be honest about themselves and about the world in which they live. 

   Each week, on a Wednesday morning, these writers gather in a circle around a table.  And soar as high as their minds will take them.  Wherever you are, whatever day you choose, perhaps you could also.  

 

 

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