In Me and My Mum, Tony Robinson
took an intensely personal look at the
plight of Britain's elderly in a film
about his 89-year old mum, Phyllis, who
suffers from dementia and lives in a
care home.
Tony looked candidly at an issue that
will eventually face many of us, but
which we prefer not to talk about: the
reality of what we should do when our
parents can no longer live
independently. "I'm angry at the way old
people are treated in this country,"
says Tony. "I feel frustrated that no
one ever talks about it, and maybe I'm
guilty because I am as much to blame as
everyone else."
Whether caring for a parent themselves
or admitting them to a home, he meets
other people facing the same dilemma in
different ways and asks what we, as a
society and as individuals, can do about
it.
In the film Tony also talked to care
professionals, organisations
representing the elderly and politicians
about the possible solutions. He faces
all of this with honesty, wit and a
determination to find a solution.
And while Tony wonders whether more
could be done for his mum, and faces an
unexpected change in her health, he also
realises that this is a situation that
may well confront him and his own
children in time.